1. Sense of humor. There is not one guy I know of that doesn’t appreciate a who girl laughs at his dumb jokes simply out of a sensitive humorous bone.When a woman laughs, there is always a beam of light that comes across a guy’s face, and if the laughter is, say from a woman across the room, it has the power to make a man jealous, wanting that laughter to be for him. Humor is child-like energy and is like a billboard mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “Open Heart!” Men feel it on a gut level, it’s in the nature of polarity to men and women. I’m not talking about faking a sense of humor, because that kind of inauthenticity will throw red flags. You can always tell a person who is trying to laugh to gain some sort of approval. I’m saying a woman sensitive to humor is a great find for a man.
2. Youthfulness. This goes along with #1 because it comes from a playful heart. When I say youthfulness, I don’t necessarily mean age. What I mean is a state of being. Youth is an energy. You can tell a person who’s had it ruff from the world and who has become dead inside, and somebody who is youthful and fresh and has kept their sense of self separate from the negativity of other people’s opinions. A child playing on the play ground hasn’t been corrupted by the world yet. All she cares about is playing in the sand, swinging on the swings and having fun this moment. She is fresh. I’ve been amazed when I see 18 year old girls who feel 40, and then when I see 40 year old women who feel 18.
3. Body language. Body language is 55% of all communication (vocal tone 38%, language 7%). Hips loose and tilted a bit forward, weight on the lower back, shoulders and upper back relaxed, chest present, chin up. A smile will show a man an openness on a gut level and no smile will show him “untouchable”. It really depends on who you’re wanting to attract. Body language is like a person’s energetic pulse to the outside world telling the world if they feel good about themselves or like one is ship wrecked (the former being preferable to attracting more positivity) . Whether you love or hate her, Paris Hilton has awesome body language so if you like, check her out.
4. Emotion. The insecure man will be repulsed by an emotional woman, and the confident man will be attracted. Remember, this isn’t about faking anything, like tantrum, emotional outburst etc. etc. but rather just allowing your yin nature to flow through you. Emotion is spontaneous. The unemotional yang is attracted to its polar opposite the emotional yin by the force of magnetism.
There are another 8 over here.
I’d say I had a good balance of those… except… I’m not finding anyone who’s trying to pry his hands off me. :(
This is so true, I look at my current relationship compared to my last few and all these apply in terms of why the current one feels so much better than the last.
@Maria, rather wait a few years to have that man that will gently pry his hand off you just to go to work rather than 10 men who will hurt you in many ways.
@Maria – perhaps you need to get out a little more? This is usually my problem, I’ve become a work-a-holic and don’t get out enough so meeting new people is difficult?
@Seagyn – That’s awesome to hear bud!
Hey Chris,
Enjoyed reading what you had to say! Have you written anything recently?
@Lee – How do you mean?