I proposed to my girlfriend, Fiona (aka Fe), yesterday and she said yes. A lot of people have sent such wonderful messages and asked me more about it. Firstly I’d like to thank everyone, it means more to me than you know!
Here’s how I did it:
I prepared a blog post (click here to see the post) carefully and set it as a draft, I then called Fe to find out where she was and to double check that her Internet was working as I had an important email to send – She was on her way home. I quickly published the blog post and raced through to her house, whilst en route, I grabbed my phone to call her and can you believe it, the cellular network was done! OMGosh, I panicked, but fortunately it came up again a few minutes later. I gave her a call and said that I needed her to go to her laptop and check my website for some information I needed. She quickly loaded up the website and I asked her to refresh it and tell me what the latest log post was entitled, to which I heard “Will you..”, I hung up my phone, jumped out my car and waited for her to read “Please come outside”. Minutes later (Goodness me, those couple minutes felt like years, I was shaking, even though I knew she’d say yes!!!) the gates started to open, I ran up to her door and as it opened, I got down on my knee. It was such a beautiful moment, I don’t think I’ll ever forget the feeling when she said yes, wow, I can’t even describe how that felt! Wooooooohooooooooooo!
We then proceeded to see our families and share the news, whilst answering hundreds of texts, calls, emails and tweets – it was madness. After some champers, a bunch of people were gathering at Sandbar in Camps Bay for drinks to welcome Cath to town. We relaxed and had some good drinks, a big big big thanks to Sue, Brendon, Jolene, Neal, Andre, Cath, Cath and Matt – you guys made Fe and I feel so special!
Here are some pics:
Ironically, I don’t have any pictures of Fe and I, but the minute I do, I will post them and a proper picture of the ring :)
Update:
Damn hard to take pics!
What a fantastic weekend!!!


















I was so upset to see that you were not proposing to me :/
heh!
Congratulations to the both of you!
Have a good one with each other…
Thanks bro :)
Hey, Chris
Congrats to you guys again and thanks for the follow up post! Wishing you guys infinite happiness together!
Thank you so much Alessio!
Getting married was the best thing Ilana and I ever did. It is heaven waking up next to the woman of your dreams, or if you’ve had a tough day, to come home to her is just awesome!
Again, I wish you two all the happiness in the world mate, being married absolutely rocks!
Oh that is so cool! congratulations :)
Thanks so much @StevenMcD, you speak beautiful words :)
@Jeanette – Thank you so much!!!
Since I’ve already congratulated you, just to let you know that your awesome Campsbay sunset is now my desktop background, if you don’t mind. It’s truly breathtaking, like the occasion, I guess?
Absolutely! Brendon took an amazing one of the sunset with a proper camera, I will try get it from him and post it :)
Well done and welcome to the best club around. Marriage is the greatest, best thing especially if the two are best friends. Here’s wishing you and Fe much love and happiness to come
Dear Chris and Fe,
I am so please for the both of you, just be true to each other and share the bad times as you do the good times.
It was such a romantic proposal and i am proud of you Chris, you have outdone yourself again.
God Bless.
Love
from Denis and Cherith
Thanks so much @Fiona, we most definitely are best friends :)
@Denis – Thanks for all the messages mate! We’ll do our best to follow in your footsteps, almost 40 years is so darn inspirational!
Congrats Chris…
May you two have many more magical years together and I wish you the best.
Nice one with the proposing btw :)
Thanks mate! Hehe, glad the “strategy” worked :)
Love the way you did it :-)
Wish you both a wonderful future together.
What a sweet proposal!! Congratulations you two, marriage is a wonderful thing!
Congratulations Chris & Fe! :-D
Congrats mate, hope you two have a wonderful life together.
Congrats! Wishing you guys a solid, happy marriage. Very creative – full marks on the proposal!
Congrats Chris.
I remember the terror of waiting for mine to say “Yes”!
Wow, congrats Chris & Fe!! :D
@Louise – Thank you so much!
@Louisa – Thanks angel :)
@Gerhard – Shot bro!
@Elzet – Yay, I’m so glad the way I did it has been given the thumbs up by so many people! Thanks for your kind words :)
@Cliffy – Ye mate, nice to hear someone else who can relate to that :)
@Christine – Thanks a million!
Thank you @islandchic – For some reason your comments always hit my spam, argh! Thanks for the thumbs up on the way I did it :)
Congrats Chris to you and your fiance. I am sure you are both on cloud nine! Enjoy this time, it is so special. You have so much to look forward to. Wisheing you both all the best!
I was wondering when you were going to get around to marrying your girlfriend, Chris.
You’re a very lucky guy.
Thanks @Kimmie, it is hugely exciting indeed!
@Richard – Hehe, I think a lot of people were waiting for it ;) Thanks a million mate, I’m hugely lucky indeed!
Congratulations Chris!
Thanks bro!
Big congrats to the two of you! (And for doing what’s probably a south African blogging first)
Thanks a million Jonty :)
Was a unique approach wasn’t it ;)
Congrats! =]
Thanks Maria! :)
Congrats mr mills and miss fe.
Haha, thanks dude :)
Congratulations guys!
Thanks Martin, geez, long time no hear, how you doing?!
Wow dude, Congratulations!
Thanks mate!
Well done Chris! Greeting from your French/Australian/South African clients. May all your dreams come true. Bestto you and Fe.
Simon and Lovonne
Thank you so much Simon!!!
Where in the world are you now?